I learned a lot about food, cooking and feeding folks from my Granny. She taught me how important it is to taste your food as you cook and season all along the way. ”If it don’t taste good to you, it ain’t a-gonna taste good to anybody else”, she would say. Such a simple idea. Such common sense. Not only did she arm me with the knowledge of how to make food taste good, she made me appreciate the value of food. There’s no better way to learn the lesson of food value than from someone who knows what it’s like to be hungry because food was in short supply. When food’s scarce you don’t waste one bit of it. My grandmother was born in 1909 and knew plenty about hard times way before The Great Depression. The Federal poverty guidelines were established in 1963/1964. She lived in poverty before poverty was defined.
On a large scale, it pains me to think about the amount of food we waste in this country daily. On a smaller scale, I’m riddled with guilt every time I throw away food. The impression made by my Granny has stayed with me. I struggled along as my children went through their “eyes being bigger than their stomachs” phase. I never understood why it seemed to be so hard for them to learn that you can put small amounts on your plate and go back for seconds if you wish. On one occasion, I had taken my middle-school aged daughter to a Sweet Tomatoes restaurant which offers a salad, soup and bread/dessert buffet. Going into the restaurant, I told her about the buffet and reminder her not to put more on her plate than she thought she could eat. Entering the line to the buffet, I saw the stars collecting in her eyes and quickly reminder her to start slowly. She walked away from the buffet with food loaded so high on her plate that she could barely see over the top. Cherry tomatoes rolled off her plate and her path was sprinkled with salad greens as she walked. Trouble was brewing. I knew it as well as I knew my name. She zealously ate a few bites of her lunch. The next few bites seemed less interesting to her. She stopped eating and started poking at her food. I guess she thought I wouldn’t notice that she had barely made a dent in the mountain of food. When she noticed my mother glare, she said, “I thought I could eat it all.” It’s not often people can eat a heap of food as big as they are. I made her take money out of her piggy bank to repay me for the food she wasted. Today, she is most frugal with food. Part of her frugality was born out of economic necessity when she decided to become a stay-at-home Mom. I like to think the Sweet Tomatoes incident play a big part.
I sharply remember the first time I heard the phrase, “Make good with what you’ve got.” My mother and grandmother had come to visit us in Mobile. It was rare that my grandparents came to my house. They had gotten to the age where Granddaddy didn’t feel comfortable driving any distance and we lived about 3 hours away. The morning after they arrived, Granny asked me what I had planned for today. I told her that ordinarily I would be catching up on laundry that day. The couple of toddlers living in our house ensured that my dirty clothes baskets stayed full to the brim. I wanted to spend the day just visiting with her and doing whatever she wanted. She insisted that we do the laundry because she wanted to help me get it caught up. The laundry was started. That chore let to another and another and another, each with Granny’s hands right beside mine. Time had gotten away from me and I now realized that it was close to dinner time and I had no idea what I was going to cook. I told her that I needed to run to the store to pick up dinner fixin’s. She said, “Well, shug, you’ve got lots of food in your refrigerator. You need to make good with what you’ve got.” My original idea for dinner didn’t include feeding my grandmother leftovers. I wanted to cook her something new and unique. Something she rarely got to eat. I wanted to make her feel special. There’s nothing special about leftovers.
She insisted we eat from the frig.
I gave in.
We started pulling food in containers and fresh food from the refrigerator. She and I made plans about how we could use this or maybe we could add a little something to that. In a short while, we had pieced together a pretty good meal. This practice was nothing new to me. As a young family living on one income, we had a limited food budget and I made sure we used food efficiently. As the meal plans progressed, she and I talked about our commitment to using all the food we had and how we felt being wasteful was a shame and not tolerable. I told her ways that I had “repurposed” foods. She thought I was so smart. I reminded her of snippets of our prior conversations that taught me to be frugal with food.
As we sat the table for dinner, it occurred to me that this impromptu meal made from leftovers was a rite of passage for me. Granny had now seen, firsthand, that I knew the art of proper food management and utilization. Those particular words never entered her mind. They weren’t part of her vocabulary. She was satisfied that I knew how to make good with what I had. She left my house, the last visit to my house, beaming with pride, knowing for certain that she had one of the best meals of her life.
For years and years after, I would hear Granny talk about it. She would describe to her friends that time she came to visit me and I had nothing planned for supper but she and I pulled first one thing and then the other out of the refrigerator and wound up with a fine meal. The first time I heard her recall the story in this manner, I bristled. It seemed like she was making a disparaging remark about my lack of planning. After reflecting on her words, it became clear to me that she was bragging about my resourcefulness. And, she loved telling the story that showed what a good teacher she was and how I had been an attentive student. She was tickled that she had taught her granddaughter a critical life lesson. I was awfully proud to have her as a teacher. That pulled together meal from leftovers was symbolic of the student’s gift of an apple to the teacher. In her eyes, I’d passed that test with flying colors. It was the most memorable “A” I ever made.
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Watermelon Marinaded Flank Steak
How could I ever forget the lesson of “make good with what you’ve got”? I can’t. We got a watermelon this year that had a good enough taste but the texture was a little on the mealy side. It would take a lot to get us to not eat a watermelon. I believe we would actually suffer through a bad one. Every time I eat watermelon, which happens to be a lot, I think about my granddaddy’s line that he would say every single time we ate watermelon with him. He would say, “Watermelon’s good for your kidneys.” And he was right! It is good for your kidneys.
We got down to the end of the mealy melon and I thought I would come up with something different to use up the rest of the melon. Frequently, I make a marinade for meat that consists of olive oil, lemon juice, soy sauce, honey and spices and herbs. There was a flank steak waiting for me in the refrigerator and I was in the mood to put on my mad scientist hat. I substituted the sweetness of the watermelon for the honey. Adding fruit to a meat marinade isn’t new or creative. It’s done all the time but I had never used watermelon in this fashion.
2 pound flank steak
1/2 c. watermelon juice
1/2 c. soy sauce (I used low sodium)
1/2 c. olive oil
1/4 c. fresh squeezed lemon juice
1/2 tsp. onion powder
1/2 tsp. garlic powder
1/4 tsp. dried ginger
1/2 tsp dried thyme
Puree and strain water melon to get 1/2 cup juice.
Add the remainder of the ingredients, except the flank steak, and mix well. Place the flank steak in a gallon plastic bag. Pour marinade over, seal and let sit in the refrigerator overnight.
Drain well before cooking. Season liberally with ground pepper. I used low sodium soy sauce for this marinade and I felt the beef could have stood up well to more salt. A more delicate protein, such as chicken, may have bbeen salty enough with the low sodium soy sauce. I had to season the beef with salt after cooking. Place on a hot grill and cook 6 to 7 minutes on each side. Remove from grill, tent with foil and let rest for 10 minutes before slicing.
When ready to serve, slice against the grain. You will be rewarded with tender, juicy medium beef.
terri says
So enjoyed this story. My granma would of never gone to the store like we do now. She prob. Could of fed a crowd pulling out of the fridge. And it would not of mattered to her who it was or how special they thought they were!
Jackie Garvin says
Terri,
What a great inspiration your grandmother must have been for you. It wouldn’t hurt any of us to become more efficient and frugal with regards to our food. I will never forget the lesson I learned from my Granny. Thank for reading and commenting
Cindy Nardo Gross says
I truly enjoy reading stories about when you were growing up, so many of them bring back memories of my own childhood. I was fortunate enough to have two Grandmothers who loved to cook. Both took pride in teaching any one of their grand-daughters all the recipes the learned as young girls. One was Italian and taught me many Pasta dishes and spicy sauces. the other was Pennsylvania Dutch and I learned to make an awesome pot roast and fruit pies.,and custards.My Mom and dad both loved food and taught all 7 of their children how to appreciate all the bounty we learned to grow ourselves. Thank you for the walk down memory lane,you always make me smile ,once in a while I’ll tear up but only because I miss them all so much when I am reminded of them through your stories. Always in friendship, Cindy Nardo Gross
Jackie Garvin says
Cindy,
What a fantastic culinary history you have! You were so fortunate to have such diverse experiences in the kitchen.
Thank you so much for reading. I am blessed by you everyday!
Ann says
Your granny and my grandma could have been sisters!!! Every time I read a story about your granny it brings my grandma so clearly into focus, I can hear her say something like what your granny told you. When I was growing up we ate stuff out of the garden every day in the summer. I remember telling my Mama that I wasn’t going to eat butterbeans and corn when I grew up, I was going to buy my food from the store – boy have I ever eaten those words a million times!!! I can’t tell you the times I have wished for a dinner with fresh butterbeans, corn, fried okra, cornbread and tomatoes!!! That is how they fed our family, and she worked all summer putting it in the freezer so we would eat during the winter! I really appreciate all that hard work they did now!!
Jackie Garvin says
Ann,
I went through a period in my life where I was trying to get away from my upbringing and live what I thought was a “better life”. Luckily, I got over it and came to my senses! The good ol’ days were the BEST days!
Jean says
We are learning that every day we live arent we?
Jackie Garvin says
Jean,
We certainly are! Thank you for reading and commenting. I am blessed by your everyday.
Jean says
My Grandparents owned a grocery store for most of my childhood. They never took the best of things home to eat. They made do with the cheaper things but always something good was cooked. Soup made with a soup bone and always cake with the sugary icing.
I still cannot and will not throw away food. Maybe I take a little after my Grandmother after all!
Jackie Garvin says
Jean,
Those lessons are the best ones to learn. We would benefit greatly if we all got back to more of the ways of the good ol’ days.
Jean says
I think its going to be a have to to go back to the days of our Grandparents!
Jackie Garvin says
Jean,
I agree that we need to change our ways. We are way to wasteful and dependent.
Michele says
Dear, dear Jackie! The only reason I haven’t commented sooner is that there’s soooooooooo much I want to say! This is neither the time nor the place to write a book 🙂 I can’t read your beautiful post without getting teary-eyed, and that’s okay. Neither one of my grandmothers (although they were as diferent as night and day in many ways) would have dared to waste a morsel of food. They both lived what you wrote about: “Make Good with What You’ve Got”. My favorite example of that is the miracles my maternal grandmother used to create when my granddad brought home all manner of “organ meat” that he’d managed to obtain “practically for free”! We had liver every which way, tongue, brains, you name it. They never did get me to eat the brains, though. I could always tell. Well, at least I think I could tell… Love you, Jackie! Thanks for this nostalgic post and for the super marinade!
Jackie Garvin says
Michele,
You and I are a kindred spirit. There’s not a doubt in my mind about that. Syrup and Biscuits has brought so many of us together who have known each other all our lives but yet we’ve never met. For that reason, Syrup and Biscuits is meant to be. I feel it in my soul.
I know exactly what you mean about all those organ meats. My Granny would eat brains and eggs. She didn’t have that very often and I’m not aware of eating that myself. But then, as you pointed out, who really knows? I have a post I/m working on in my head about finding chicken feet in chicken and rice. That only happened to me one time but it liked to have scared the life out of me! Do you know about Liver and Lytes? I have tried and tried to research that and I’m just not having much luck. It was pork liver that was cooked with hot peppers and “lytes”. From what I’ve read, some have suggested that lytes were the lungs but I’m not totally convinced of that just yet.
Michele, I am blessed by you everyday in more ways than you will ever know. I can’t wait until we meet in person. We will. I feel that in my soul, too.
Love,
Jackie
Jean says
Jackie…Lytes are the lungs of an animal. Lots of people who killed hogs ate that but they never could get me to. My grandmother made hog’s head pudding too. The other granny different as day and night…made scapmeat.
So there you go!
Jackie Garvin says
Jean,
I thought lytes were lungs but I just couldn’t be sure. My family made souse which is the same as hoghead cheese.
Jean says
Heavens its early and my typing leaves something to be desired. SCRAP MEAT. Bits and pieces of the hog. Cooked with cornmeal i think and sage.
Jackie Garvin says
Scrap meat and scrapple must be about the same thing. I’ve never had it but our friends from Philadelphia talk about it.
Jean says
Jackie I do remember eating this. It kinda reminds you of sausage and its
pretty good. Yes I would say scrap meat and scrapple are very much alike.
[email protected] says
I was raised to make do too 🙂 I can’t wait to share the recipe with my huband-he does the marinating around our house.
Jackie Garvin says
Tipper,
Thanks for stopping by! I was surprised how well the flavor of watermelon complimented the beef. It actually came out better than I had anticipated, except I wished I had used regular sodium soy sauce. It felt good to be able to use up the last bit of the watermelon.
Tools for the Barbeque says
Thanks for sharing.I was searching for this.